Just Ask...and please say No, Please don't keep silent

....Orang kata, jangan timba mencari perigi..malu nanti..perempuan mesti jaga maruah kan..

But, for the good sake for both sides, i think better u ask if you want the certainty..don't keep guessing..whether he/ she likes me or not..it will waste or time and make you feel really tired..
memang memalukan pada mulanya..tapi at least kita berpijak pada dunia nyata..kita pun boleh cari "port" terbaru kan...hahaha..

My Advice is ..just ask..i'm telling based on my true experience..mulanya memang saya malu dan memang tak nak tanya...i keep hoping he will start first..but...after one year..nothing happens...

Then..I ask..and the answer...is ..."NO"..I admit that it made feel really hurt..but at the same time ..i feel release, i feel free, dah tak de beban dalam hati saya...

Actually, until now, Im still not believe that I am too brave to ask him that soalan maut tu..macamana dengan KITA?..

Just ask OK. That's all for now.

Salam

Maid/ No Maid, Please..

Nowadays, having a maid is become our culture especially for the working couples. When they have 2 0r three children, they tend to have maid.

there will be pros and cons when you are having a maid. the good thing is it will help to help you especially the wife to manage the houseworks. washing clothes, fold clothes, cooking, tidy up your house, take care of your children....and so many works which is never ends...

I've met some of colleagues who have 5 childrens but do not have maid....SO PROUD OF THEM..What their secrets?

one of them told me that they educate thier children to manage themselves by doing the simple things like washing shoes,washing and ironing schol uniforms and other things.

For me, thats good. because we train them to be more independent.

To be continued...

Help Others

i just thinking that we should to educate ourselves to help others who having problems or facing difficult times in their life.

Before this, i am not the person who likes to lend a helping hand to others. i'm not saying that i am a bad person, but i always do good for those who do the same way to me.lately, i think that i should help others sincerely. just do good without thinking what will get back from what i have done.

do not think about yourself only.

Semoga pertolongan ikhlas kita pada orang lain akan membuka rezeki Allah pada kita dari jalan yang tidak disangka-sangka.

InsyaAllah.

Family First

In our life, family is the first. treat them well, better than u treat others. selalulah bertanya khabar dan menolong mereka. sebab, keluargalah orang pertama yang akan menerima kita dalam apa jua keadaan pun. lebih-lebih lagi apabila kita susah.

bergaduh sesama adik beradik memang akan berlaku. tapi kekallah dalam kasih sayang. tolonglah our siblings first before u help others.


Luv for family...

Way out...

Have u ever face this situation? your fren unavailable to hang out with u and u just break up with ur boyfriend?mesti sedih kan...

nak pi jln2, nak release tension, u plak tak de kete, yang ada cuma train panjang tu je..

so, what the quick way out???

- this is just life skills senario. tak ade kene mengene dengan yang idup atau mati....